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Move beyond limitations, performance anxiety, and the beliefs that keep your sex disconnected and explore yourself as a multi orgasmic man.

What Is A Multi Orgasmic Man?

Multiorgasmic man is a term you may have heard before.      The potential for a man to separate ejaculation from orgasm, allowing him the choice to ride the waves of orgasm without peaking to “the end.” This is a subject of which I am personally passionate about. Watching my three sons blossom into manhood, […]


Heartbreak

Heartbreak is very much part of our human experience.  So often our reaction can be shut our hearts away, to protect and shield ourselves from pain.  And yet heartbreak can break us open, to reveal our capacity to love … more. In this video I explore with you how our response to heartbreak can ease […]


The Joy Of Tantric Sex.

A light evening interview with Allison Ferns and Bibi Lynch from BBC Radio, exploring with Michelle Roberton the joy of tantric sex. Pop, your feet up, pour a glass and enjoy ❤️


Is Tantra A couple’s Journey Or A Journey For An Individual?

We can have the presumption and misconceived idea that Tantra is a couples journey and all about great sex. In this video I offer the suggestion that Tantra is in truth an individual journey, enhanced, once fully embodied, with another.      


“And Within Her Body: Flowers Were Blooming.”

“And within her body; flowers were blooming.”    This was repeated to me through the night in disturbed dream.  And each time I woke into the caress of the night … a sleepy whisper. I can feel it.  The internal flowering.  The joy filled expectancy. A delicate refined balance between a contented calm and a […]


What Lies Behind Our Touch?

What lies behind our touch?                 When we touch another, is it unconditional? Or are there agendas, expectations and even unspoken wants behind that touch. In this Brighton Talks Sex podcast,  I share how we can change the quality of our touch and change it into a gift of […]


Embracing The Approach Of Play Versus Practice.

I would like to offer an invitation to embrace the approach of playing and not practising. Life is sincere but it is not necessarily serious. Tantra supports this quality. That in all we do comes from a place of being, so there is sincerity behind our action, behind our doing,. But there is not seriousness. […]


Letting Go Of Friction Based Sex.

I would like to offer the suggestion today, to let go of friction-based sex.    In our society, our culture, friction based sex is the only idea that we are offered in our sex education. That all sex is action based. Or sex is friction based. This idea of friction based Sex definitely gets us […]


Is Ejaculation Orgasm?

Is ejaculation orgasm? Ejaculation and orgasm are two separate things. I recently had a lady say to me “I did not know that was possible, let alone a thing.” And we are don’t because we are not taught this within our sexual education, thus keeping our sexual experiences limited to one flavour. I would compare […]


You Are A Sexual Being.

I very often have people saying to me, particularly women and particularly women of a certain age group. (Peri-menopausal, going through the menopause and then the other side) that they are not sexy, they do not need or desire Sex and they do not see or feel themselves to be a sexual being. I truly […]