You Are A Sexual Being.

I very often have people saying to me, particularly women and particularly women of a certain age group. (Peri-menopausal, going through the menopause and then the other side) that they are not sexy, they do not need or desire Sex and they do not see or feel themselves to be a sexual being. I truly […]

Is Our Deepest, Deepest Desire Sex?

Is our deepest deepest desire sex or do we simply not have the language, the confidence in communication, or the courage to be vulnerable to ask for what we truly need? When we so easily ask for, initiate or move into the act of sex … are we in truth desiring the simplicity of touch?  […]

The Grace Of Whole Body Orgasms.

We can be so focused on what we think an orgasm should like, or what an orgasm should sound like or even to the extent what we think an orgasm will feel like for our body. Even in the Tantric world, there is maybe this idea that when we are having these whole body orgasms, […]

Busting The Tantra Bullshit.

Tantra has a stigma in society. A limiting idea or presumption that it is all about having great sex for hours and achieving multiple and whole body orgasms. The thinking around Tantra can still be method/goal orientated… as in a means to great sex … but still an “action.” I am deeply passionate about the […]

The Expectations Of Whole Body Orgasm.

In Tantra we are invited to enter without expectations or goals. And yet due to much talk of whole body orgasms there is a presumption that this is what Tantra is about and what will happen. As with any of our expectations in life … we miss out on the other flavours that our mind […]

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How Tantra Is Shared Within The Sessions As A Lifestyle.

In this video I offer a insight into how I shares Tantra as a lifestyle within the sessions of Sacred Touch, deeply listening to each BODY story that maybe holding you back to living a life of love and sensation ♥️  

Self Caress.

When was the last time you gave your self tender caress? When was the last time you made a date with your body?   Gifted yourself with beautiful scented oils and lotions. Lit candles … When was the last time you touched your skin, your body … for no reason or agenda. No particular “have to” […]

Intimacy With The Breath.

Intimately knowing our own breath is something we do not tend to naturally create or allow for ourselves as adults.  We restrict our breath not allowing it to expand into our belly. Or we try to alter and control it through breathing practices. But What if you simply placed a hand on your belly and […]

Tantra Is A Lifestyle Beyond The Bedroom.

Tantra is not something we do in the bedroom to improve our sex life. Of course it expands upon and enriches our sexual experiences but Tantra is a lifestyle… A way of curiously attending to life through the pleasure of body, breath and our senses.