Tantra is an ancient Philosophy that guides us into knowing our natural state of aliveness as a felt experience within the body. The reconnection to our lifeforce moves us beyond what keeps us limited, into the expansion of our true radiant self.
Tantric bodywork has little to do with great sex from a smaller thinking perspective, and more to do with sexual alchemy and how we may allow this powerful life force to move us into heighted states of consciousness. This in itself is tasted as the Great Universal Orgasm.
Tantric Embodiment is essential, in that all experiences are somatic rather than a concept, or idea that comes from the intellect, instead we are in tune with our own body intelligence. When we have a felt experience, it is beyond thinking and is able to integrate with in the body as a new known truth.
The sensations that ripple through the whole of the body are commonly felt as an orgasmic sensation, this is when our sexual energy is not restricted to the genitals but has been given permission to be fluid. We are able to move our sexual energy when we are ready to meet that which puts our body and energy into contraction or tension rather than the trust and allowing of immersion.
Experiencing Tantric Bodywork
Within a Tantric Bodywork session we are invited to let go of goals, expectations and “what we think we know about Tantra” and surrender to the present moment and the music of our own energy.
From this deep listening place, the body reveals where sexual energy is restricted and is offered space, for the resistance, to be met … and dissolved.
It is not of the mind, we move into depths of innocent trust and reverence of the body and ourselves, as a whole sexual being.
Body and breath, presence and touch creates the possibilities of profound experiences of transcendence to be grounded and integrated, that influence how we feel in our own skin and our experiences of life, others, and the world around us.
Tantric Bodywork makes space for:
- Whole body touch to co-create and establish a felt knowing of body and sexuality that feels honouring, safe and empowering.
- Deep body listening to any resistance being held and therefore restricting the fullest potential of a felt aliveness and the orgasmic self.
- Develops a deeper capacity to feel and moves us away from obsessive thinking and an overly noisy mind. We move into sensations, where there is no space for thought.
- We meet an internal silence and our individual compass for what brings us pleasure and joy.
- Awakens a conscious grounded presence throughout the body.
- Encourages curiosity, play and creativity.
- Real builds trust and agency after trauma, creating clear boundaries and consent.
- Create a container that supports the mastering of sexual alchemy as a vehicle of healing, transcendence, creation and vitality.
- Invites greater self acceptance and a calm surrender to what is.
- Integration of body, mind, heart and sex as one whole experience of oneself.
- Invites us to listen to the bodies intelligence and allow it to guide us into rich relationships and a more aligned, authentic way of living.
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What happens within a Tantric Session?
The whole of the body experiences touch, this is to offer your body a felt sense of wholeness. Usually our body is kept in separate pieces, because of the act of sex or because of our resistance to a part of our body.
Sometimes this touch may feel like a devotional caress. Other times it may feel like an an alive pulsation of energy that excites and stimulates but also quietens the mind and expands us into our own orgasmic potential. Sometimes it may feel like bones are being touched, sometimes it will feel like a long stored belief or emotion is opening …. There may be peace, there may be stillness, there may be exhilaration, there may be tears, there may be joy …
Each session is unique, each session is a deep listening to the body and therefore cannot be prepared or structured. Each session builds upon the other into vast estates of sensation in the body.
Yoni Massage and LIngam Massage are part of, but not the focal point. Although this is known as massage, it is not sexual in the way that we expect, it is most certainly nothing like masturbation but does allow for the release of stagnant energy and the stimulation of sexual energy.
Please note that all Yoni massage, is not internal, I believe that the body has to be respected, and that when the body wants to invite healing of the vaginal walls, it will do so, otherwise it is simply a western idea about Tantra that we feel we have to experience and if the body is not soft and receptive this can be a felt experience of invasion on the body.
Within all sessions, breath, sound, and Tantric methods are explored.
After each visit an audio recap of the session is provided, with any supportive suggestions for your unique journey. I am contactable between each session to support any challenges that may arise from the homeplay and equally to celebrate with you your breakthroughs.
How the sessions are held:
The sessions are co-created to meet each individual within the discomfort and limitations currently suppressing well being and invite space for you to come home to the physical sense and sensual aliveness of your body.
Each session is guided by the body’s pace and capacity in the moment.
The work is relational, grounded, and trauma-informed, with attention to safety, consent, and integration throughout.
There is no expectation to go beyond what feels appropriate or resourced. The emphasis is always on working with the nervous system rather than against it.
Yes! If …
You are unable to feel your body and life as a source of pleasure and sensuality.
You are aware that your life is being influenced by past traumatic events, rather than clear conscious present day choices.
You are exhausted playing safe and small.
You are unable to access safety, self agency, self assurance and calm.
Your life is lacking motivation, joy and purpose.
You are ready for a life changing journey.
Not able to commit to a process and are seeking a quick fix patch up.
Not open to huge transitions in how you feel and your life.
Not wanting to change and to keep your story.
Wanting “the work” to be done for you or to you, as a form of rescue rather than empowerment.
Do not feel your life is worthy of the time or financial commitment to you.
A 20% deposit is required upon booking. The remaining fees are due on the day of our first meeting.
If you require a payment plan please ask, all fees will need to be paid before journey begins.
I believe while honouring 24 years of holding another’s body through the release and transcendence of pain, healing needs to be as accessible as possible. If finances are the only barrier to working together, please let me know.
I reserve a limited number of reduced fee places for those experiencing genuine financial hardship.
Please read terms and conditions here.
I strongly advise that you ensure you can commit financially.
Making an investment into the process of connecting with yourself and your body from a felt wholeness creates profound changes in all areas of your life.
How to book:
On receiving your enquiry, I will then invite you to a casual chat/consultation by phone before committing to your booking so that you may ensure you feel at ease with me. Together we can explore any questions you may have and soften any concerns.
Intensives are available for those travelling a distance or from abroad.
For days and times of availability, payment terms and professional boundaries, please ensure you read my etiquette here.
Choosing the right Therapist for you is essential and ensures both parties are coming from the same intentions.
All journeys in life require strong beginnings of courage, love honour and trust.
Your investment:
Tantric Embodiment Bodywork Journey.
Three 120 minute weekly Sessions.
A focused introduction to Tantric bodywork, supporting the flow of suppressed sexual energy, opening up spaces of aliveness and expansion.
£720
Six 120 minute weekly Sessions.
A deeper exploration of embodiment, intimacy, pleasure and relational healing.
£1425
This work is suited to those who are ready to engage in a gradual, supported process of working with the body as an embodied experience of transcendence.
Due to the depth of this work, all new clients begin with an enquiry process rather than direct booking.
This ensures the work is appropriate, resourced, and held with care.
Testimonials & Praise
Well what can I say? In unique and different ways these experiences have been deeply healing, transformative, freeing and nurturing. In just a few months I feel as though I have gone from being like a shell, a shadow, to becoming much more a fully sensual, sexual and vibrant woman. I have so much gratitude to Michelle for helping me on this journey and I feel that I once more step out with confidence, a smile on my face and a sparkle in my eyes.
Before I met Michelle I really had no idea what to expect, just a sense that this was the right path for me to be taking at this stage in my life and I would urge anyone with even the vaguest interest in tantra healing, to follow your heart and step in. With Michelle you will be in very safe and skilled hands. From the bottom of my heart, thank you Michelle 🙏”
Sex was painful, not pleasurable, and I was often triggered by touch. Sex was a chore for me that I felt I had to do.
I was naturally anxious and afraid to contact and reach out to Michelle but from the very beginning she understood that fear. She spoke to me on the phone and gave me all the power to decide if I trusted her. My fears were reassured and as soon as I met Michelle I felt at ease. To experience entire touch of the body without it being sexual and to have it only be about me, me coming home to my body, and me reconnecting to my body in a way that was completely on my own terms. Even after the very first session I felt more confident and more relaxed. When I got home I sat with my body and actually felt some flicker of connection to my yoni. I could hear her, for the first time ever. I felt her pain and was finally able to begin to release it. I had been focusing so much on therapy of the mind that I had neglected to remember the therapy that my body needed.
Michelle supported me and gave me advice, any question I had I knew it would be met without judgement and with answers full of wisdom. I have a long way to go until I am completely healed but meeting with Michelle and having my healing sessions with her have been the first real steps towards a place where I finally feel completely safe and connected.
I cannot thank Michelle enough for her support, she is not only a healer but a safe guide that is always there to hear your pain/success/happiness, whatever you want to share. It has been life changing!’
I give you my heartfelt thanks. You’re a wonderful person.”
Michelle’s loving & accepting manner helped me to start to leave the past behind. During my yoni massage, she enabled me to feel safe, protected & accepted & I was able to allow painful emotions to be expressed & allow the shame that I’d held around sexuality & pleasure to drop away. I am now left with more of a sense of ownership around my own body, I feel safer within it & overall I feel lighter, more grounded & with a newly found sensitivity & sense of aliveness that I can’t remember ever feeling before. Thank you so much Michelle.”
My journey to full embodiment has been a long one and with the loving and expert guidance of Michelle – this week I felt myself viscerally and literally land back into my body. I had the sensation of giving birth to myself – my soul finally feeling safe to come into my womb centre.
I am sharing for two reasons…. firstly, because I believe this work to be beautiful, sacred and so utterly necessary for anyone who has ever felt any shame or disconnection from their body. It is time that every young girl, teen and woman knew that her body was a sacred and divine vessel. When you feel this and you know it, you understand that you cannot possibly treat it any other way. I am not excluding men, simply sharing from the experience of being a woman. Secondly, I am sharing because I didn’t undertake this work with Michelle lightly. I tend to carve out my own road for healing and empowerment. Yet I knew I wanted help and I knew that I would be held in an extraordinarily safe way. Coming into my body has been fraught with fear and trepidation for most of my life and so feeling safe and held was paramount. Thank you Michelle Roberton for the gift that you are, and the heart, purity and integrity that you hold with your work”
I have a great counsellor (who I have been seeing since 2014) who is helping me process my past. I needed help to reconnect to my body. To find and embrace the sexual being I could be, who I have never even contemplated I could be.
I feel that with my counsellor I am doing amazing healing of my mind and Michelle is doing amazing healing of my body and bringing my mind and body together again, as well as opening the door in my emotions that I had kept locked away – which I could then discuss with my counsellor. It’s working out incredibly well.
Michelle through her amazing skills and endless understanding has helped me begin my journey to reconnect with my body, femininity and power. I never expected to make such amazing progress in such a short while (a mere six Weeks). The appointments with Michelle are so relaxing. She is fantastic to talk to and is always ready with advice to help.
I always feel very relaxed and positive after my appointments which helps my mental health, You also have home studies which help continue your healing process in the comfort of your own home.
I would absolutely recommend Michelle to anyone who has issues with intimacy. I feel that with the continued support of Michelle and my counsellor I have fully rounded support. I do feel strongly that both girls and boys as part of their sex education should be taught about the pleasures of sex and relationships as well as the pure mechanics. I wish I had know then what I am beginning to know now.”
My first teaching’s have focused on how to breathe differently whilst focusing on key areas of my body, and for me, I have already experienced repeatedly the mind calming and body sensations which Michelle initially opened with her touch and understanding. I am still going through a time of great personal change. However through beginning to understand how Tantra can help and calm me, week by week, I am improving my being and understanding of myself.”
Enquire About Working Together
Due to the depth of this work, all new clients begin with an enquiry process rather than direct booking.
This ensures the work is appropriate, resourced, and held with care.
Warm Wishes
