Tantra Blog - Sacred Tantric Touch

I don’t want to leave you.

I want to ...

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I don’t want to leave you.

I want to lie here forever, held in the musty scent of you.

Listening to your whispers of silence, that speak to my loins. My heart.

I am so vast here.
So vast.
My breath is stolen.
No edges to restrain my beingness.

How can I return now to walls with no soul.
No morning song,
Or evening star.

Knowing you are here,
Knowing how my body melts into your form,
As you beckon and draw from me, long kept sighs of all my womanly wild secrets,
Wrapped in orgasmic threads.
An unquenched longing.
Your love. 💕Michelle Roberton 💕

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I want to lay bare upon your bones.
Flesh upon...

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I want to lay bare upon your bones.
Flesh upon my own.

Feel the ecstasy of your rhythmic breath, it’s licks, it’s pauses.

Enticing the wild call within.

My temple is swollen. Wet. You drink her rivers.

Ravaged open by fiery tongue.

Rooted in deep union with you and the ancient songs of formless lovers.

Michelle Roberton 💕

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Do you dare to be vulnerable?

There is ...

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Do you dare to be vulnerable?

There is such strength ... and oh my days such freedom when we step into our vulnerability.
Each time I have dared to be vulnerable, I find another beautiful part of who I am ... that maybe I shamed away. Maybe I was told was not loveable ... or maybe I overheard "that is just not the way"
Without stepping into vulnerability I would not love as I do... would not allow myself to be seen, known, touched by not simply others, but life!

On the 4th & 5th of May Hanna Angell and myself are holding "Body Love & Intimacy"
We only have men booked so far. How amazing is that?! And such gentle beautiful souls.
So come on women ... come on All. Show up and dare to be vulnerable. I promise it will set you free in ways far beyond you ever imagined 💕

https://www.bodyloveretreats.com/love-and-intimacy-retreat/

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How often do we show our body, judgement?
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How often do we show our body, judgement?
Speak to it with harsh, critical, unkind words?

Would we tell our children or loved ones, they are too fat, unlovable,
too thin …. imperfect?

I think not.

If we can change our attitude and our language towards our body to one
of gratitude, through this simple process our body begins to soften
and respond in new ways, enabling our relationship with it to
transform into one of beauty ❤️ Body Love & intimacy retreat.
The yoga gardens. Dial post.
4th & 5th of May.
All bodies welcome 💕

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Heard of vaginal kong fu? And ping pong balls? ...

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Heard of vaginal kong fu? And ping pong balls?
No, this is not what I share in this conversation ... although ping pong balls may get a quick cheeky mention.

This weeks podcast guides us through the initiation of Jade Egg and all the vast and fabulous physical, mental, emotional and spiritual benefits to this ancient women's practice 💕

You can listen on Spotify or ITunes. Enjoy 😉

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Eyes closed … listening to the storm.
My ...

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Eyes closed … listening to the storm.
My skin dissolving into the claps of thunder … heart bursts open with the skies & I am gone …
Invisible …
For I am the wetness of the rain hammering on the window pane,
The wind lashing through the trees,
The orgasmic scream tearing … teasing the tempo to climb higher
Riding life’s wild horses …
Bareback & free …
Silence …
I am the bird’s song …
The smell of moist lands …
The break in the grey …
& the light.
I am in love with life,
Totally, completely smitten *grin*
This twinkle in my eyes, a pool of what is divinely, deliciously … felt in my veins, my body …
The secret contours to explore & the adventures to come
As I rise up & up, writhing in ecstasy …
In love …
with life.

Michelle Roberton 💕

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Rescue ~

When we are seeking or waiting ...

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Rescue ~

When we are seeking or waiting for rescue it is very self dis empowering.

It means that we are telling ourselves that we cannot hold this for ourselves and grow from it.

Of course we all feel we need and we desire support of another.
Whether that is someone we know can listen to what we want to express, whether that is someone holding a space for us to attend to our own body, movement or breath.

Or whether they hold us tenderly, for our emotions to come up.

But this is holding and creating a space for us to attend to and meet our self rather than the other DOING IT for us or to us.
This is very empowering!
Especially in moving through childhood trauma, because the trauma is something that happened to us.
It was an external force upon our body, upon our breath, upon our psyche. Upon the whole of our being.
When we wait for rescue, it is still that something from the external. The outside world, that is going to be the cure, the answer, the healing.

Where as the rescue, the alchemy is something internal.

A happening on the inside so we may feel empowered again!

When something happens on the outside it can feel dis empowering, something that is taken away, controlling ... we can gain that back from the empowerment feeling and being internal.

We can notice where in our lives, we still have this feeling of hopelessness, helplessness, and so are seeking rescue.

The dynamics of that, maybe very subtle.

It maybe in the way we ask of others, our lack of desire to care for self or our inability to take action.
Of course it is healthy to ask for what we want but there maybe an element behind our asking, where we are still expecting or seeking rescue and dis empowering ourselves.

You are the alchemy! You are powerful, beautiful ... amazing and ... your own source of rescue 💕

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“Stillness is our most intense mode of action. ...

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“Stillness is our most intense mode of action. It is in our moments of deep quiet that is born every idea, emotion, and drive which we eventually honour with the name of action.
We reach highest in meditation, and farthest in prayer.
In stillness every human being is great.” - ‪Leonard Bernstein‬

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Body Love & Intimacy Retreat. 4th & 5th ...

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Body Love & Intimacy Retreat. 4th & 5th of May.
Hosted by Michelle Roberton & Hanna Angell.

This is a mixed group dissolving all boundaries related to form and gender. We all have a body and we all desire to be known, met and seen ... intimately.
Body love & Intimacy, walk hand in hand. We cannot truly know intimacy without entering the depths of love.
We have been taught that both of these experiences are given to us.
This is not so and keeps us on an external and dis-empowering search for intimacy and love to be given from “other.”
The more we have Body Love, the more our masks of what we believe to be unlovable, dissolves away, and the more we allow life and others to truly touch, see and know us.

Book your gift to self today ... to avoid missing out on this beautifully held, gentle and conscious way to explore our resistance with intimacy 💕

Link in bio 💕

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There is a huge difference between taking the ...

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There is a huge difference between taking the responsibility of our own healing, of our own choice and desire to grow from, to move forward from ... To taking responsibility for the actual abuse.

Self blame is so prominent in sexual trauma. When we have come to a place of acceptance that it happened we may then go through a process of self blame.

Self blame is a mental and emotional state that can keep us restricted and keep us tight in the inability to move forwards.

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We need within our bodies, a feeling that “this ...

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We need within our bodies, a feeling that “this is true.” The creation of a possibility for a sensory experience of truth.
Our mind may have the logical explanations, the facts, the affirmations. The words.
But it is the body that embodies the language and lives by it 💕

MichelleRoberton.com

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We approach our bodies with an attitude that ...

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We approach our bodies with an attitude that something is “wrong” with them... As if they need fixing. Some problem to solve.
Yet what if we approached our body as a child, a loved one that is simply asking to be held. To be listened to 💕

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Acceptance is a big step in the alchemy of sexual ...

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Acceptance is a big step in the alchemy of sexual trauma.
Our bodies no longer held in the tightness of denial that once may have kept us safe, able to manage and survive.
Acceptance allows energetic space for things to move, there is flexibility, there is an opportunity for change.

When we give ourselves this gift of acceptance that it happened, it gives our body an opportunity to move out of a belief that it is still happening.
Which is why our nervous system and so many other things are triggered because of the suppression of a memory in our body, our poor body is still believing that it is happening, rather than that it happened.

With acceptance that it happened, we are able to move and so is our body able to move and adjust.

Acceptance gives us permission to be responsible for our own life, to feel empowered in our own journey and our own healing 💕

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They say the universe is always expanding and ...

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They say the universe is always expanding and therefore it makes perfect sense that so are we.

Yet if we feel into the universal expansion ... into the subtle. There is not a continuous expansion as we presume it to be but a spongey pulsation that takes a pause after each expansion. That does not contract to where it came from but takes a pause into the expansion to rest, to gather itself, to consolidate ... to readjust, to settle. To know itself a new before the next expansion.

To expect ourselves to be always expanding ... to force upon ourselves growth ... to try (such an unloving action) to squeeze ourselves into an expansion we are not quite ready for ... Is not authentic... organic... trust, or flow. Self kindness.
GRACE.

We cannot be an oak tree without all that we need to thrive and survive in our new roots, new form.
To believe we must always be expanding without pause allows no space for the beauty of grace.
Watch where you feel yourself pushing through the pause. Pushing to the next thing, the next step and how your body resists and asks you to come back home ... just for a pause. 💕

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We can have knowledge from a place of intellect ...

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We can have knowledge from a place of intellect such as certification and being well read …
But there is a different quality when being held, heard and led by another who knows how that tastes and whose sharing comes from the expertise of their own body intelligence and inner alchemy.
I am not an expert of your experience … you are.
What I am, is an expert of my own alchemy of sexual trauma and it is this I choose with passion to share with you 💕

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“Here in this body are the sacred rivers. Here ...

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“Here in this body are the sacred rivers. Here are the sun and the moon, as well as all the pilgrimage places. I have not encountered another temple as blissful as my own body.” - Saraha Doha 💕

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Many moons ago, the word Ritual for me personally ...

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Many moons ago, the word Ritual for me personally repelled me.
It felt tied up with my aversion to religion.
And my stubborn nature in “having to do” and totally against my wild desire for spontaneous.

I notice also in the “everyday couple” not seeking a Tantric Way particularly but a richer depth of connection with their lover, their eyebrows raise at the mention of Ritual or a sudden impulse to leg it out of the room 😊

BUT over the moons ... I have softened to this word by feeling it beyond the “ouch” and “that’s not for me”. We all are habitually Ritual as earthlings on a daily basis. The way we get ready in the morning. How we put our children to bed ... warm milk, stories and kisses.
How we spend our evenings. How we like certain things a certain way.

Ritual is allowing space and time for something we are sharing with our self or an other to become present. Nothing else ... the phone, the shopping, the day we just had ... the day yet to come, exists.

And this complete presence changes that experience into a quality of feeling deeply satisfying. Rich. Treasured.
When we are with our lover, our child, or our own body. Our rituals makes this moment sacred 💕

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As I sat to rest against a tree.
There she was...

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As I sat to rest against a tree.
There she was at my feet.
We met. We smiled.
Her in me ... me in her.
The sacred feminine 💕

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Our stories are our gifts to others.
They are...

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Our stories are our gifts to others.
They are not our identity.
Nor are they for us or others to define or to restrict ourselves by.
But simply where we have grown from ... They are our joys, our pains, our courage, our loves, our precious moments.
Our Alchemy.
In sharing our stories, we gift others with the possibilities of growth too 💕

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Body Love & Intimacy Retreat.
4th & ...

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Body Love & Intimacy Retreat.
4th & 5th of May.
Yoga Gardens.
West Sussex.
Hosted by Michelle Roberton & Hanna Angell.

This is a mixed group dissolving all boundaries related to form and gender. We all have a body and we all desire to be known, met and seen ... intimately 💕

Body love & Intimacy, walk hand in hand.
We cannot truly know intimacy without entering the depths of love.
We have been taught that both of these experiences are given to us.
This is not so and keeps us on an external and dis-empowering search for intimacy and love to be given from “other.”
The more we have Body Love, the more our masks of what we believe to be unlovable, dissolves away, and the more we allow life and others to truly touch, see and know us.
The weekend will include:
Gentle movement, supporting you to breathe into and feel the subtle sensations alive in your body. An exploration of your body story and personal resistance to loving your body and allowing this deeply personal relationship into your life.
Support in releasing pain, grief, shame and BS beliefs of body perfection.

We will work together through how you are feeling in your own body and provide space for you to learn how to deeply listen to your body’s needs.

Witnessing with kindness the masks you may wear and the barriers that no longer protect you but keep you and your relationships small.

We will develop a “mini body love & intimacy tool kit” for you to apply to your life as an essential daily dose of self love and devotion. Full permission for you to come home to your own skin, bones and all of life’s simple Pleasures!

Tickets on sale now!
Visit: bodyloveretreats.com

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Get To Know Your Clitoris For Owners & Lovers.

Have you ever taken the time to get to know your clitoris or your lover’s clitoris?

I believe our clitoris has secrets of pleasure and wisdom that support us to know ourselves in richer ways as a woman or explore and meet our lover in new ways … if only we slow down and approach the world of clitoris beyond being “a go to” button.

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Change Your Masturbation, Change Your Life.

When we take a look at our approach, our beliefs and our with masturbation, we can see how the arena of our bedroom behaviour reflects on how we show up in life. Can we learn to caress, love and be tender with self? Without goals, expectations? Without judgement or shame? By simply changing our intimate […]

An Honest and brave Journey Of Touch.

Fate brought me to Michelle’s site – an article in a magazine about Yoni massage, a blogger who had written about Michelle and then Michelle’s site itself. It seemed to me that it was all meant to be, however I was beyond terrified. Being touched by others and even touching myself was deeply unpleasant. I […]

Sex … more than a three letter word. With Nic Askew.

Sharing with the wonderful Nic Askew, the word Sex had much more to bring into presence than what we contain those three letters to be.

The Joy Of Tantric Sex.

A light evening interview with Allison Ferns and Bibi Lynch from BBC Radio, exploring with Michelle Roberton the joy of tantric sex. Pop, your feet up, pour a glass and enjoy ❤️

Looking Beneath Our Desire?

If we take time to pause, to listen to self, we will often find that there is something beneath our desire that is not quite being met, as we are attending to our desire from surface level without truly listening in or from habit. As we learn to allow our deepest desire to be fully […]

The Importance Of Telling Our Partner We Wish To Explore Our Sexuality.

I strongly believe it is important to share with our partner our intention to explore our sexuality and Tantra. In this video I share why I feel this is so and the effects it can have on shaming our sexuality or experience when we don’t.

Is Tantra A couple’s Journey Or A Journey For An Individual?

We can have the presumption and misconceived idea that Tantra is a couples journey and all about great sex. In this video I offer the suggestion that Tantra is in truth an individual journey, enhanced, once fully embodied, with another.

Sex After Childbirth Trauma.

In this video I share a reflection on how we may approach sex after trauma during childbirth, in a tender, kind and less intensely focused way. This may also be a gentle approach after any sexually traumatic event.

The Alchemy Of The Jade Egg.

Most of us have heard of vaginal kong fu and the art of ping pong balls. But no, this is not the kind of magic I share in this conversation … although ping pong balls may get a quick cheeky mention. In this Brighton Talks Sex podcast I guide us through the initiation of Jade […]

Get To Know Your Clitoris For Owners & Lovers.

Have you ever taken the time to get to know your clitoris or your lover’s clitoris?

Change Your Masturbation, Change Your Life.

An Honest and brave Journey Of Touch.

Sex … more than a three letter word. With Nic Askew.

The Joy Of Tantric Sex.

Looking Beneath Our Desire?

The Importance Of Telling Our Partner We Wish To Explore Our Sexuality.

Is Tantra A couple’s Journey Or A Journey For An Individual?

Sex After Childbirth Trauma.

The Alchemy Of The Jade Egg.

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