In Tantra we call the vagina, “yoni,” This is a Sanskrit term which, when translated reveals a whole new perspective of the vagina. A meaning that holds love & honour.
She is called “sacred space” or “sacred temple”.
I feel this Sanskrit translation is a beautiful reflection of how the yoni is seen, touched and respected in tantric massage.
This way of “being” in relationship to the yoni, is I feel not only important for men to integrate into their understanding and sexual journey of the female genitals but women also.
Too often in Western society, the yoni is seen as a separate, private part to our whole body and life. We call her “down there” or our “private part”. We feel her function in life is only for sexual pleasure, sexual relationships or for the birthing of a child.
I am so often asked why Tantric massage includes the yoni and lingam.. and my answer is: why not?
Our genitals are not private parts of our body, nor are they separate parts to who we are, to only be invited to “come out to play” for special occasions. Without the acceptance of our yoni and our sexual essence we cannot fully embody our soul and our passions into our daily lives. They are sacred parts of the body of which when seen and touched from a space of love are no different to any other part of your body that you allow touch, pleasure and healing.
Your yoni has a “voice!” She has secrets to tell, ancient feminine wisdom to share, guidance to your fulfilment to offer, emotions and pain to release.
Pleasure and healing come hand in hand, as our bodies relax and release withheld trauma and tension. Your shoulders, your neck, your jaw line holds the stresses and traumas of life …your yoni is no different.
In fact she is so sensitive, that she is more susceptible to store unhealed emotions of the past and present. It is not unusual when using sacred touch on a yoni for a woman to feel overwhelmed with different emotions ranging from anger, isolation, rejection, shame to ecstatic pleasure. I am there to guide and support a woman through the expression of all of them … to unleash whatever may arise to be seen and accepted with unconditional love.
A Tantric massage has no goals; it is a very present experience of the senses that unfolds. Therefore orgasm and climax are not an aim. It may happen, it may not …that is neither here nor there or my intention as a tantric therapist.
A yoni massage is not a form of masturbation. It is not about “getting a woman off” nor is its intention sexual. It is a very conscious and present form of healing and loving touch. To be totally present for another allows the body and yoni to melt and let go. If orgasm or climax does occur it is a healing experience rather than sexual and not something we have tasted before.. The orgasms are deeply nourishing and satisfying for the body and yoni, the body moves into a state of bliss and wholeness for it has been recognised as a “whole” often for the first time. It is an expansive feeling of mind, body and soul bringing a sense of unity with our woman~ness. This is of great personal importance to bring a woman in tune with her own womanhood, to open the doorways that reveal a strong, open, sexually empowered, sensual woman ~ not simply for the man in her life, but firstly for herself, her daughters, her sisters..
I am sure the list of the benefits of a yoni massage has not reached its limit as tantra brings something new & fresh to each unique individual I have had the honour of working with. But to bring light upon this ancient practice that can be seen with such a limited view, I have provided you with a few healing experience that conscious sacred touch of the yoni may bless our lives with..
Healing Yoni Massage.
A healing yoni massage supports a woman in witnessing & accepting emotional pain be that from sexual trauma, abuse, difficult sexual relationships or trauma experienced in childbirth. Yoni Massage is a deeply spiritual practice that invites each woman to connect to her inner Goddess and express the beauty of her unique femininity.
Yoni/ Heart Massage Supports the Healing Process of :
- Sexual abuse and trauma.
- Disassociation with body/ sex experience. (Numbing out)
- Disconnection with love and sex for self preservation/protection.
- Poor body image/confidence.
- Mother wounds, distrust of women.
- Ownership of womanhood.
- Birth/ pregnancy trauma.
- Irregular/painful menstruation,
- Low sex drive.
- Pain in sexual intercourse.
- The inability to feel safe in one’s own skin
- Lack of trust in relationships,
- Lack of respect for one’s own sexuality, reducing promiscuity.
- Lack of connection to one’s own feminine nature and creativity.
Yoni / Heart Massage Invites into a Relationship With Another:
- An ability to trust
- A willingness to be vulnerable,
- An ability to surrender,
- A connection of rich depth & unity
- An ability to receive and give permission to pleasure.
- Nourishing & satisfying sex for the mind, body & soul.
It allows a wide range of orgasms & climax experiences never tasted before, for the woman to immerse herself into for personal exploration of her body & femininity ~ revealing, deepening and expanding her sensuality and sexuality.
Tantric Initiation & What Your Session Involves:
Each woman is a unique individual, I therefore cannot and do not measure time as such but allow the healing to unfold as the true essence of tantra. Each session lasts between 90- 120 minutes. Sometimes a session may be longer or shorter in time than another. I feel it is essential that we both listen to your body and its needs in the present moment & be guided in this way.
Although tantric massage is the core, meditation, breathing practice and tantric life coaching is also included to support you in integrating all that happens within a session into your daily life. I see your attendance as you making a commitment to yourself and the changes you wish to see in your life, it is essential that you feel empowered to share your experiences with me beyond our work together.
The massage includes the whole body, not one part of you being more loved or more important than another… bringing trust and a sense of safety within my touch and secondly, the whole body, yoni, mind and soul into alignment.
Although each Yoni Healing Massage session holds its own gifts and therefore value. I do feel it is essential that it is understood that Tantra is a journey of exploration ~
A gentle process of unfolding and not a quick fix as we often expect in today’s world. I do highly recommend that before booking, that you please check in with yourself that you have the time and willingness to commit to yourself and this pathway.
I strongly recommend to receive the full benefits of your tantric journey that you are able to commit the minimum of three sessions at 2- 3 weeks apart. This enables you to fully receive the benefits and teachings of Authentic Tantric Massage and to immerse yourself in the full potential of your body and sensuality. A “One off ” experience is all very well and nourishing in it’s own right but I feel it’s certainly not enough to gain a true picture of the healing power that Tantra has to offer us as women, nor enough to form the foundations for the significant changes in your life that drew you to this website.
If you have a “calling” towards yoni healing but cannot quite find the courage to take that first step, then I also offer Tantra Classes For Women as a gentle approach to the immersion of yoni healing.
I also suggest that you read Claire’s very honest account of her sessions.
After your free telephone consultation, you are request to commit to and pay for your sessions in blocks of 3 at the cost of £395.
A 50% deposit is required upon booking. Terms and conditions can be read here.
Again I strongly advise that you ensure you can commit financially to your Tantric Healing. Making an investment into the process of connecting with your sexuality and sensuality creates changes in the WHOLE of your life. .
How To Book:
Please read my Tantra Etiquette then, after contacting me via email I will invite you to a casual chat/consultation by phone before committing to your booking, so that you may ensure you feel at ease with me, and I can answer any questions you may have, or soothe away any concerns or worries.
Choosing the right Tantric Therapist for you is essential and ensures both parties are coming from the same intentions. All journeys in life require strong beginnings of courage, love honour and trust.
To contact me or book your session please email me here.