There are those that judge and have strong opinions about the concept of non-gender.         

This is born of fear of a way of being that does not conform.

Conform to what we have been educated and therefore ingrained as right and/or truth.                      

Within an expanded sexual consciousness. We see and feel ourselves to be a presence in form.

Simply a human being.

A person.

The labels that define and the “should’s” that limit the felt knowing of oneself become uncomfortable and begin to fall away.

The word Man, holds so much more power to it, more than the definition of a human born with a penis.

Within our cultures and society it is already predetermined what a man should be as a role, as a son, brother, partner, husband, father, member of the public, contributor to the economy. 

His place in the world and therefore the expectations of him are already decided.

This is also true if we are born as a female.

The word woman is more than the biological fact of being born with a vagina.

We are all innocently born, into a world that has defined who we are and therefore how we should behave, relate, and be.

I feel to be non-gender is to move beyond these definitions of who and what we should be and question who we choose to be.

Who are we as an individual, present to this experience in the world.

The confusion maybe when how we feel does not line up to what is expected due to the biological form we were born with.

I am a woman, a mother.

Yet I know myself as a person, a human being, irrelative to owning a vulva.

I have not so much as rebelled against how are I should live, feel, behave, and relate as woman but more worked through and released the beliefs and expectations of society and generations placed upon me, before I was even born.

I know myself most simply as a sexual being.

A person.

When I am with another, I am see and feel the person beyond what gender defines them to be.

I believe to define oneself as non-gender is humanity evolving.

Because it has to.

Because it is designed to.

Sexual consciousness in its purist and highest form does not see a woman, a man, the genitals.

It does not separate.

Sexual consciousness is a fluid presence, undefined, and unlimited.

For humanity to work, our caveman, limited ways and views of experiencing sex and sexuality can no longer be contained, labelled or controlled as a manmade truth that appears to keep us safe, when only keeping us small.

For without sexual evolution, humanity will not grow, and therefore not survive.