Do you crave intimacy, to be truly known and seen, yet hide amongst the wall flowers?
Do you deeply long to feel safe in your skin, your bones, your sexuality?
Do you have a gnawing knowing that there is more to love and sex than your experience?
Are you stuck? Stuck in resistance to your body, love, your grief?
Stuck in an abusive relationship with yourself … or another?
Have you come to the feeling, something has got to change. Yet you are not quite sure what that allusive something is?
The Full Pocket Experience
This is an opportunity to work with me online as a one to one co-created experience, tailored to your individual journey of body, love, and sex. My intention is to Support you to live life from a felt sense of fullness, so you may create, explore, and express playfully in the world around you. Together we will ensure all sessions shared offer steps that you feel you can integrate as a sustainable daily lifestyle.
Together let's review the density of life with new eyes? And attend to wounds with gentle hands and tender touch?
Because when we unravel our challenges in life and trace that thread back to the core, we find our sexuality is not fully alive or feeling safe and free to express.
We have through trauma, beliefs, life challenges, religion, education and culture squashed and tamed our sexual vibrancy … And so in turn our money, our relationships, our creative self, our life cannot thrive.
We lose ourselves and forget how to resource ourselves from this infinite pool of aliveness within, that can when unrestricted from sexual trauma and poor relationships with self and our body, change and enrich our experience of life.
When we reconnect with that sensual and sexual being-ness,
free from our lived traumas,
free our fears of intimacy,
free the mechanics of sex,
free from our history of messy relationships and back to its innocence.
We discover our essential sexual nature knows how to trust, connect, create.
Be alive.
Belong.
Work With Me
I am here to help you remember…
I am here to help you remember the safety and pleasures of bones and flesh, of breath and sex.
I am here to guide you in the creation of a daily self loving lifestyle, that builds strong ground for you to thrive upon in all areas of your life.
I am here to support you so you may surrender and immerse into:
A felt sense of belonging and safety in your own skin and bones, that enables you to reach out to others and explore in the world.
A real and raw, compassionate relationship with yourself.
A fulfilling and orgasmic life.
Rich intimacy with self and others.
Full sexual and creative freedom.
The voice to own your “no” and mean your “yes.”
Your fullest capacity for pleasure.
Who Am I?
My darling,
I am so excited you have found this page.
How amazing to know you feel curious to explore and reclaim all that you deliciously are!
I am deeply passionate about meeting you in the middle of what feels broken or scary and leading you gently towards the
remembering of the fullest expression of YOU in body, love and sex.
It feels important I share with you a glimpse of where I have grown from.
In November 2000 I was rudely woken up to my own messy life and the trail of destruction I had created in playing out the events of my childhood on a loop of poor self worth, self sabotage and abusive relationships. It was easy for me to love and f**king hard for me to be loved.
Sex and love were a conflicting internal experience and one tainted with shame, fear and distrust. My poor body had had enough of my self punishing ways and had resorted to shouting loudly in the form of a life threatening illness.
Meeting, listening to and most of all being gentle with the wounds and limitations around my body and sex has been my greatest challenge. I will not paint it as a quick fix, easy or fluffy for nothing sincere, of quality or depth comes out of a quick fix.
It is grounding, REAL and often down on your knees RAW.
et every breakthrough allows space to breathe, loosens the grasp of a wound, a worn out fear, a “smallness” and opens a new doorway of choice, possibilities and freedom!
For Twenty Two years I have witnessed courage and beauty in others as they have moved beyond ~
sexual trauma, crippling fear, sexual anxieties, resistance to their own skin and bones, touch, intimacy and relationships. A distrust of kindness and life. An awkwardness in movement and pleasure.
Habitual self sabotage, unloving beliefs, numbness and emotional disempowerment.
I am the mother of four fully grown, wise, compassionate, creative children.
The creator of Authentic Roots and founder of sacred tantric touch.
I share as a trauma and Tantric bodyworker and teacher.
I am a sexual trauma alchemist through lived experience. Qualified by various bits of paper.
But above all, the honest and humble tale of my way home to the sacredness of who I am, in body, love and sex.
And so my darling, it is because of deeply knowing the dark days and messy bits, the grief and shame this journey can churn up and spit out … I desire to fully meet you in with a compassionate heart.
And as for the joys and celebrations … of which there are many, I will be whopping for you the loudest!
All my love
What You Will Receive:
- Free discovery call to ensure I am the right sex coach for you.
- Weekly 45 minute zoom session.
- Support available via chat app in between sessions.
Hear what others have to say.
I have had huge hang ups since having my children with my tummy and all the stretch marks it gained…it was only 4 years ago that I I felt accepting enough of it to allow anyone else to see it….I still have times when I am insecure but that didn’t even enter my head with you…I also used to think that my yoni was perhaps not perfect as I have quite large labia, perhaps this was more due to an ex partner commenting about them, but I am slowly coming round to the belief that it is truely beautiful as it is, again not a thought about you seeing them was apparent.
I certainly felt an energy from you and cherished the heightened feelings all over my body, What you said about being able to use my sexual energy to be productive in other ways made sense, I am not sure in what way yet..but it would be amazing to be able to channel it.
Any way I feel I could go on and on talking about everything but I will leave it there for now..
Thanks again.”