Our experiences of sex during our lifetime go through many phases where opportunities of transition, are available, if we are open to grow.

A “hurdle” that is very much universal is when we stumble upon feelings of lack of fulfilment and dissatisfaction.

Our sex feels not enough. 

Instead of inquiring into the feeling of not enough, we habitually arrive at the idea that there must be a problem.

A problem which we strive to resolve, adding tension to our self, our bodies and our partners.

We may THINK that this feeling of sex not being enough can be corrected by common everyday solutions:

❤️ Having more sex.  That the frequency of our sexual activity will fill the gap.

❤️ Changing our partner or seeking an additional partner .

❤️ Watching porn .

❤️ Withdrawing from sex because it does not meet our needs and is not worth the longing, time, rejection or hurt. 

These phases of sex not feeling enough, propel us into looking externally for the “more.”   

When in truth the more we hunger for will only be temporarily quietened.

The more humanity innately seeks, to evolve into richer, deeper, more fulfilling connection with self, and in turn others can only be known, felt, tasted, experienced, and remembered from within.

Our sex feeling not enough is little to do with others and very much to do with our own connection to our sexual vibrancy. Our being-ness. Our Individual Evolution.

The missing is not because of the frequency of sex, for when we step into the maturity of our sexual consciousness, frequency is irrelative.

The more is the energy of sex, that when we get out of the way of our external mission to fix or change or demand, is available and present to us. 

The energy of sex transcends the empty and we realise that this energy is available and alive within us to dissolve and expand and reach expansive moments of cosmic bliss.

Somehow we know … just simply know…

There is more to sex than the act of sex and the limitations placed upon us by our education, past trauma and society norm and when we have the courage to move away from what we think we so expertly know and are habitually attached to and immerse into the unknown of sex, we never hunger for more again and simply blossom, thrive and evolve.  

We are internally full.

I believe that when humanity changes its small root chakra, grasping, acting and thinking of sex, humanity can and will evolve individually and as a whole, and in turn our relationships with self, others and to this earth will feel richer and connected beyond the capacity of what limited sex can possibly offer.