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Body Love & Intimacy.

I was recently invited to speak at BelongCon self love sessions. Here is the video for you … I  explore how we feel about our bodies, what stops us from feeling satisfied in our own skin, and what prevents us from being seen and met as our true and fabulous self. Please feel most welcome […]


“And Within Her Body: Flowers Were Blooming.”

“And within her body; flowers were blooming.”    This was repeated to me through the night in disturbed dream.  And each time I woke into the caress of the night … a sleepy whisper. I can feel it.  The internal flowering.  The joy filled expectancy. A delicate refined balance between a contented calm and a […]


What Lies Behind Our Touch?

What lies behind our touch?                 When we touch another, is it unconditional? Or are there agendas, expectations and even unspoken wants behind that touch. In this Brighton Talks Sex podcast,  I share how we can change the quality of our touch and change it into a gift of […]




The Magic & Beauty Of Soft Cock

We have this idea and expectation that a man is meant to have a hard erection all the time and upon demand. A man has been taught that he is not a man unless he has an erection and unless he can maintain an erection.  Therefore there is a lot of shame around having a […]


Is Ejaculation Orgasm?

Is ejaculation orgasm? Ejaculation and orgasm are two separate things. I recently had a lady say to me “I did not know that was possible, let alone a thing.” And we are don’t because we are not taught this within our sexual education, thus keeping our sexual experiences limited to one flavour. I would compare […]


The Grace Of Whole Body Orgasms.

We can be so focused on what we think an orgasm should like, or what an orgasm should sound like or even to the extent what we think an orgasm will feel like for our body. Even in the Tantric world, there is maybe this idea that when we are having these whole body orgasms, […]


Chasing The Big O

Orgasms are a much spoken topic in today’s world.      We can flick through magazines and find “DO this to your partner and give him/her amazing orgasms” But orgasms are not a method. It is not a case of trying or doing new Sex positions or styles of foreplay to get a result. To […]


Our Sex ~ The Last Place We Want To Look.

Sexuality is very often the last place we want to look.  The last “thing” we attend to in our lives. This is very often because of the guilt, shame, the suppression we have built around it. The hidden beliefs we have around our sex and our sexuality.  We do not want to go there, we […]