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Get To Know Your Clitoris For Owners & Lovers.

Have you ever taken the time to get to know your clitoris or your lover’s clitoris? I believe our clitoris has secrets of pleasure and wisdom that support us to know ourselves in richer ways as a woman or explore and meet our lover in new ways … if only we slow down and approach […]


Looking Beneath Our Desire?

If we take time to pause, to listen to self, we will often find that there is something beneath our desire that is not quite being met, as we are attending to our desire from surface level without truly listening in or from habit.  As we learn to allow our deepest desire to be fully […]



Is Tantra A couple’s Journey Or A Journey For An Individual?

We can have the presumption and misconceived idea that Tantra is a couples journey and all about great sex. In this video I offer the suggestion that Tantra is in truth an individual journey, enhanced, once fully embodied, with another.      


What Lies Behind Our Touch?

What lies behind our touch?                 When we touch another, is it unconditional? Or are there agendas, expectations and even unspoken wants behind that touch. In this Brighton Talks Sex podcast,  I share how we can change the quality of our touch and change it into a gift of […]


The Magic & Beauty Of Soft Cock

We have this idea and expectation that a man is meant to have a hard erection all the time and upon demand. A man has been taught that he is not a man unless he has an erection and unless he can maintain an erection.  Therefore there is a lot of shame around having a […]


The What’s & How’s Of Tantric Sex.

There is much talk on what Tantric Sex is which simply recreates it as something else we need to master & perform in life. I was recently invited to speak at Inspiring Talks in Brighton and shares with us and chose to share the What’s & How’s Of Tantric Sex to clear a little of […]


Sharing Touch As Pleasure.

This Tantric Snippet invites us to experience the sense of taste in a new way that transforms an ordinary, everyday taste into an extraordinary moment of presence … and then to transfer that comparison and experience into sharing the sense of Touch as pleasure. https://youtu.be/Nmwn1jBCu_o  



Love And Sex

  Occasionally during our lifetime we find it easier to disconnect love from sex and sex from love … finding it “safer” emotionally to have sex or to have love. And to keep the two in separate boxes. But eventually this too does not nourish or feed us …