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Get To Know Your Clitoris For Owners & Lovers.

Have you ever taken the time to get to know your clitoris or your lover’s clitoris? I believe our clitoris has secrets of pleasure and wisdom that support us to know ourselves in richer ways as a woman or explore and meet our lover in new ways … if only we slow down and approach […]


An Honest and brave Journey Of Touch.

Fate brought me to Michelle’s site – an article in a magazine about Yoni massage, a blogger who had written about Michelle and then Michelle’s site itself. It seemed to me that it was all meant to be, however I was beyond terrified. Being touched by others and even touching myself was deeply unpleasant. I […]


Is Tantra A couple’s Journey Or A Journey For An Individual?

We can have the presumption and misconceived idea that Tantra is a couples journey and all about great sex. In this video I offer the suggestion that Tantra is in truth an individual journey, enhanced, once fully embodied, with another.      


Sex After Childbirth Trauma.

In this video I share a reflection on how we may approach sex after trauma during childbirth, in a tender, kind and less intensely focused way.  This may also be a gentle approach after any sexually traumatic event.      


The Alchemy Of The Jade Egg.

Most of us have heard of vaginal kong fu and the art of ping pong balls. But no, this is not the kind of magic I share in this conversation … although ping pong balls may get a quick cheeky mention. In this Brighton Talks Sex podcast I guide us through the initiation of Jade […]



Letting Go Of Friction Based Sex.

I would like to offer the suggestion today, to let go of friction-based sex.    In our society, our culture, friction based sex is the only idea that we are offered in our sex education. That all sex is action based. Or sex is friction based. This idea of friction based Sex definitely gets us […]


The Magic & Beauty Of Soft Cock

We have this idea and expectation that a man is meant to have a hard erection all the time and upon demand. A man has been taught that he is not a man unless he has an erection and unless he can maintain an erection.  Therefore there is a lot of shame around having a […]