Can we learn to caress, love and be tender with self? Without goals, expectations? Without judgement or shame?
By simply changing our intimate relationship with self, moving through the resistance and the challenges, we can change our life.
Sharing with the wonderful Nic Askew, the word Sex had much more to bring into presence than what we contain those three letters to be. Continue Reading
If we take time to pause, to listen to self, we will often find that there is something beneath our desire that is not quite being met, as we are attending to our desire from surface level without truly listening in or from habit. As we learn to allow our deepest desire to be fully… Continue Reading
I strongly believe it is important to share with our partner our intention to explore our sexuality and Tantra. In this video I share why I feel this is so and the effects it can have on shaming our sexuality or experience when we don’t. Continue Reading
In this video I share a reflection on how we may approach sex after trauma during childbirth, in a tender, kind and less intensely focused way. This may also be a gentle approach after any sexually traumatic event. Continue Reading
Is Tantra a technique? In our society and our culture we are given techniques… Continue Reading
In this short video Michelle shares some of the effects of porn on women and teenage girls in which she is experiencing within her female clientele. Continue Reading
I would like to offer an invitation to embrace the approach of playing and not practising. Life is sincere but it is not necessarily serious. Tantra supports this quality. That in all we do comes from a place of being, so there is sincerity behind our action, behind our doing,. But there is not seriousness.… Continue Reading
We have this idea and expectation that a man is meant to have a hard erection all the time and upon demand. A man has been taught that he is not a man unless he has an erection and unless he can maintain an erection. Therefore there is a lot of shame around having a… Continue Reading
Is ejaculation orgasm? Ejaculation and orgasm are two separate things. I recently had a lady say to me “I did not know that was possible, let alone a thing.” And we are don’t because we are not taught this within our sexual education, thus keeping our sexual experiences limited to one flavour. I would compare… Continue Reading