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Change Your Masturbation, Change Your Life.

When we take a look at our approach, our beliefs and our with masturbation, we can see how the arena of our bedroom behaviour reflects on how we show up in life. Can we learn to caress, love and be tender with self?  Without goals, expectations?  Without judgement or shame? By simply changing our intimate […]



Looking Beneath Our Desire?

If we take time to pause, to listen to self, we will often find that there is something beneath our desire that is not quite being met, as we are attending to our desire from surface level without truly listening in or from habit.  As we learn to allow our deepest desire to be fully […]



Sex After Childbirth Trauma.

In this video I share a reflection on how we may approach sex after trauma during childbirth, in a tender, kind and less intensely focused way.  This may also be a gentle approach after any sexually traumatic event.      


Is Tantra A Technique?

Is Tantra a technique?                                                                                    In our society and our culture we are given techniques […]



Embracing The Approach Of Play Versus Practice.

I would like to offer an invitation to embrace the approach of playing and not practising. Life is sincere but it is not necessarily serious. Tantra supports this quality. That in all we do comes from a place of being, so there is sincerity behind our action, behind our doing,. But there is not seriousness. […]


The Magic & Beauty Of Soft Cock

We have this idea and expectation that a man is meant to have a hard erection all the time and upon demand. A man has been taught that he is not a man unless he has an erection and unless he can maintain an erection.  Therefore there is a lot of shame around having a […]


Is Ejaculation Orgasm?

Is ejaculation orgasm? Ejaculation and orgasm are two separate things. I recently had a lady say to me “I did not know that was possible, let alone a thing.” And we are don’t because we are not taught this within our sexual education, thus keeping our sexual experiences limited to one flavour. I would compare […]