Through the sharing of my words, I hope to answer your curiosities, bring to your life sensuous moments & inspire you to taste tantra. Giving yourself permission to live a satisfying, bliss-filled life, knowing the riches of intimate touch & sacred sex.

Category Archives: Your Curiosities

Is Tantra A Technique?

Is Tantra A Technique?

Is Tantra a technique?                                                                                   

In our society and our culture we are given techniques all the time.

Of how we may do this to get a certain result.

Tantra I feel is not a technique. It is a method. A method for life.
And even when I say it is a method, that does not hold a quality of seriousness to it and trying to work out how this method works.

These methods come from an approach of play.  Of experimenting, of experiencing.

What Tantric methods, or Tantric keys create in our lives when we approach them from a space of play is that they truly become our experience.

That we know the method, that we know how it feels.  Not from the space of intellect, so it is different from when we are told something and then we know it.

This is a knowing from our own body intelligence.  From tasting an experience and integrating it as our own.

It is not any good, let’s say, when someone tells us something and then we just accept that as our knowing.

There is a different quality from knowing something because we have been told,  then when we know something because we deeply, truly, passionately feel it as our own experience and our own truth.

What we find when we play with these Tantric methods that after time the method falls away.

The method enables in us and holds a space for us:

for expansion,

for growth,

for experimenting,

for experiencing,

for evolving,

for more bliss and more pleasure

And then when this is truly integrated into our lives, into our way of being, the method falls away because we do not need that key or that method, or door way anymore because we have become it.

Tantra is not a technique.  It is not something we can learn or we can know from a space of mind.  It is not something that we attend to with practice or a sense of seriousness

Tantra is a method that invites us to play and to be curious.

It invites us into a space of expansion and freedom.

And when that method is most simply, completely and utterly absorbed to each beat of the heart, into each breath, into bones, into cells.  Into body, into our life ~  then the method may simply and most beautifully fall away. ❤️


Embracing The Approach Of Play Versus Practice.

Embracing The Approach Of Play Versus Practice.

I would like to offer an invitation to embrace the approach of playing and not practising. Life is sincere but it is not necessarily serious. Tantra supports this quality. That in all we do comes from a place of being, so there is sincerity behind our action, behind our doing,. But there is not seriousness.… Continue Reading

Busting The Tantra Bullshit.

Busting The Tantra Bullshit.

Tantra has a stigma in society. A limiting idea or presumption that it is all about having great sex for hours and achieving multiple and whole body orgasms. The thinking around Tantra can still be method/goal orientated… as in a means to great sex … but still an “action.” I am deeply passionate about the… Continue Reading

The Physical Sexual Health Benefits Of A Jade Egg Practice.

In this Tantric Snippet I share some of the physical sexual health benefits of Jade Egg Practice. How this may support us to: “Map” out our Yoni muscles to support us during child birth. And enable us NOT to have a tight vagina/yoni but one that is supple and flexible, causing us less pain and… Continue Reading

Your Curiosities…

How tantric massage & teachings support premature ejacualtion, impotence & performance anxiety… Unless you have been diagnosed by your doctor with a physical reason for premature ejaculation or impotence, then it is probable that you are experiencing some kind of performance anxiety. A man often sees it, that it is his “job” to ensure his partner is having the… Continue Reading